Mistresses often lose when a wife is involved and if the cheating man really cared about the affair she would not be his mistress; he would get a divorce and either live with her or marry her. When women have affairs with married men the percentage is high that she isn't honest with herself and knows a married man is safe and she doesn't have to commit to him same can apply to the married man.
If the mistress is truly in love with the married man she'd better not count on him to leave his wife and come rushing to her.
Generally the relationship between mistress and a married man doesn't work out. If the wife finds out the man will either go back to his wife if she will have him or want his freedom and wouldn't want to commit to another relationship so quickly.
The only thing I can think of for a married man to think of his ex mistress is if he fell in love with her and he don't love his wife anymore, got spoiled on everything from her. And maybe his ex mistress is good in bed, not like his wife just doing the same old thing.
I wasn't the mistress that become his wife, but I have seen a few who were the mistress that married their married lover. One thing for sure the relationship wasn't the same. It took 4 months for my friend who was the mistress that becomes his wife to find out how bad and painful it is to find out that the man that she married also end up having an affair behind her back. She then realized what she did to his ex wife before was very painful. She divorce this man who was her married lover and become her husband when she discovered his affair.
She was taught a big lesson that if you hurt someone, it will come back to you and bite you. He probably cares about her but she should remember that she is his second choice. Otherwise she would be his wife and not his mistress. Ever heard of alienation of affection? A wife can sue the husbands mistress if mistress knowingly has an affair with your husband knowing he is married. Let just say when this married man finally got tired of doing the same thing with his mistress.
Just like what happened between him and his wife, that's the reason why she is with you.. Hitler was never married in the normal sense of the word. It depends on the circumstances but you are right when it comes to mistresses. When a married men do have the affair, their life do change, exciting moment, different out look, new surrounding and most a new woman who is not even close to his wife. The mistress gives everything to her married man, especially time and attention. They can talk about everything especially the intimate subject that supposed for man and his wife.
The facts of this relationship is his wife is always busy without taking some kind of break. With this scenario, that how and when a married man start having a different feelings for his mistress. Log in. Study now. See Answer.
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Has anyone gone from a mistress to a new wife and still feels the relationship was true love? A mistress is bound to come to this realization sooner or later. She may choose to stay in the affair long after she's realized her mistake for any number of reasons including denial, fear, and, of course, love. Falling for the wrong person happens to all of us. It happens to single women dating single men. It happens to women who fall in love with married men. It happens to the wife of a husband who is having an affair.
It happens to same-sex couples as well. The point is, most likely the mistress already knows she has made a huge mistake and only stays in the affair because she thinks her lover wants to be with her. Of course, some women may not be that emotionally attached to their lovers, but I would guess that most are -- especially in long-term affairs that carry on for years.
Mistresses are just like any other woman in the world. They don't necessarily need to be vilified. How many women fall for a man and believe most of what he says? We've all done it at some point or another. If a woman knows her lover is married or found out at some point after she already fell for him, then there is no doubt she has been sweet-talked and promised to hundreds of times. It's fairly common for a cheating husband to tell his mistress that he is miserable in his marriage and wants to get out.
This may or may not be true, but whether or not he does get out of the marriage is another thing. If there are children involved or if the husband does truly want to be with his wife, then he won't make the steps to leave the marriage. A mistress has already placed herself in a vulnerable position, so if she is in love with the man she is having the affair with, she will make excuses for him, and probably suffers from deep denial.
It may take months or even years for a mistress to realize that a man is not going to leave his wife for her. If he was, he would have done it sooner than later. Hanging on to an affair in hopes that a man will leave his wife is something many mistresses do, and if there are years that pass by, she becomes more invested in the relationship, and also more comfortable within the lie.
The affair becomes her normal. The secrecy becomes her normal, and in many cases, she will self-medicate or behave destructively to alleviate the guilt and shame. Being the mistress is not glamorous.
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